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Are you and/or your Owner polyamorous,…
Are you and/or your Owner polyamorous, monogamous or have an open relationship? How does that work for you? What are the other partners like?
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In learning to know other things, and other minds,…
“In learning to know other things, and other minds, we become more intimately acquainted with ourselves, and are to ourselves better worth knowing.” - Philip Gilbert Hamilton
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It is our choices…that show what we truly are, far
“It is our choices…that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.” J. K. Rowling, Harry Potter and The Chamber of Secrets
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What are your sleeping arrangements?
What are your sleeping arrangements? Do you sleep with your Owner? On the floor? In a cage? In another room?
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The paradox is that the needs of the master are not,
“The paradox is that the needs of the master are not, in fact, superior to the needs of the submissive. Rather, they share equal importance.” – Kacie Cunningham
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Do you or are you the type of person who needs to be…
Do you or are you the type of person who needs to be micromanaged? Why or why not?
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We will discover the nature of our particular genius when…
“We will discover the nature of our particular genius when we stop trying to conform to our own or to other people’s models, learn to be ourselves, and allow our natural channel to open.” — Shakti Gawain
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Do you find pleasure in common tasks…
Do you find pleasure in common tasks and see them as a part of your submission? What chores do you perform and take extra pride in making sure your partner is pleased? –from Submissive Safe Haven on...
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Power is like being a lady. . . if you have to tell people you are, you aren’t.
Power is like being a lady. . . if you have to tell people you are, you aren’t. — Margaret Thatcher
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How do you vet a Dominant?
How do you vet a Dominant? What’s your process of checking them out before you meet or play with them? – from Submissive Safe Haven
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I now know how to walk around properly in my undies. People would keep...
I now know how to walk around properly in my undies. People would keep telling me to push my tits out! I also now know how to use a whip on people without causing bruising. — Billie Piper
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Have you ever become so discouraged that you gave up on kink for a time?
Have you ever become so discouraged that you gave up on kink for a time? What caused this despair? How did it work, returning to vanilla? What caused you to return to kink?
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Distance means nothing when someone means everything.
“Distance means nothing when someone means everything.” — Unknown
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The single most common question in BDSM is “How do I find a submissive?”
The single most common question in BDSM is “How do I find a submissive?” — John Warren, Ph.D
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Triggers
How did you discover your triggers? Did you have obvious things in your life or past that made you aware of possible triggers? Or did you run head first into a trigger or two? What are some less than...
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What do you know of your Owner’s reasons for the rules and orders you are to...
What do you know of your Owner’s reasons for the rules and orders you are to follow? Why does he request these things? What is he trying to teach you?
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How has technology changed how you serve your Partner?
How has technology changed how you serve your Partner? Is it improved or are there issues with its use?
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“I’ll get started tomorrow..”
“I’ll get started tomorrow..” What behavior or activity do you keep pushing off until tomorrow? What reasons do you use to delay the change. What if you were ordered-directed by your dominant to make...
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Is it wrong to believe without proof?
Is it wrong to believe in something or someone without proof?
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