At its root, perfectionism isn’t really
“At its root, perfectionism isn’t really about a deep love of being meticulous. It’s about fear. Fear of making a mistake. Fear of disappointing others. Fear of failure. Fear of success.” – Michael Law
View ArticleReplenish me, Master, for my well runs dry.
“Replenish me, Master, for my well runs dry.” – Kacie Cunningham
View ArticleDon’t make any one your priority if you’re merely…
“Don’t make any one your priority if you’re merely their option.” – unknown
View ArticleWhat are you afraid of? What does your Dominant partner…
What are you afraid of? What does your Dominant partner do to alleviate your fears? Are some fears difficult to share, even with your Dominant? “Fear cuts deeper than swords.” George R. R. Martin, A...
View ArticleThe number one job of the dominant is to continually seduce consent from the...
The number one job of the dominant is to continually seduce consent from the bottom. — Joseph Bean
View ArticleWhat purpose do contracts serve? Would…
What purpose do contracts serve? Would you or do you have a contract in place? What are pros and cons of having a written contract? -from Submissive Safe Haven
View ArticleHave you had a mentor before?
Have you had a mentor before? What can having a mentor do for you?
View ArticleList: The best BDSM or D/s related books you’ve ever read
List: The best BDSM or D/s related books you’ve ever read
View ArticleThe wonder of being a slave, as you put it, isn’t that we serve when it suits...
The wonder of being a slave, as you put it, isn’t that we serve when it suits us but rather that we serve always. — Unknown
View ArticleIs power exchange a need or a want in your life?
Is power exchange a need or a want in your life?
View ArticleIn your pursuit of your passions, always be young.
“In your pursuit of your passions, always be young. In your relationship with others, always be grown-up.” – Tom Brokaw What does this quote mean to you?
View ArticleNothing ever goes away until it teaches…
“Nothing ever goes away until it teaches you what we need to know.” – Pema Chodron
View ArticleDo you find pleasure in common tasks…
Do you find pleasure in common tasks and see them as a part of your submission? What chores do you perform and take extra pride in making sure your partner is pleased? –from Submissive Safe Haven on...
View ArticleHow do you deal with coming down after an intense scene?
How do you deal with coming down after an intense scene?
View ArticleWhen you think night and day and every moment only of pleasing me
When you think night and day and every moment only of pleasing me, things will be very easy for you. — Anne Rice
View ArticleTurn to an entry in your journal…
Turn to an entry in your journal or diary from a year or more ago. What has changed and what has stayed the same since then?
View Article“You set the standard for how people will treat …
“You set the standard for how people will treat and regard you, by how you treat and regard yourself.” –Bryant McGill
View Article‘I am a Rock’. Explore the idea of living without…
‘I am a Rock’. Explore the idea of living without the support of other D/s lifestyle members and on-line resources.
View ArticleTo design the future effectively, you must first let go of your past.
“To design the future effectively, you must first let go of your past.” – Charles J. Givens
View ArticleSubmission depends on the individual’s ability to align his will with that…
Submission depends on the individual’s ability to align his will with that of the dominant and use his intelligence to fulfill her wishes gracefully and efficiently. — Christina Abernathy
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