How does a bottom know what items are safe to be used for scenes/play?
Have you ever looked through a tops bag and thought something was unsafe to be used as a toy?
There are some really strange things used in play that weren’t designed for it.
What are some items you would veto because the item is not safe?
Here are some questions you can ask yourself about items you aren’t sure about:
- Can it be properly cleaned
- Will it leaves lasting scars that you are not comfortable having on your body
- Is it maintained and kept in good shape. No damaged areas that could make it unsafe.
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